HOW TO THROW A STUNNING WEDDING COME RAIN OR SHINE

The months of June and July are not prime wedding seasons in Kenya but why not? Sure, it’s really chilly and the weather is quite unpredictable, but there are dozens of benefits of having your wedding during an off-peak season like this. For starters, it’s going to be easy for you to book vendors and find your dream wedding venue. You are also likely to pay less because the supply of wedding services outweighs the demand.

We agree that rain on your wedding day can be a good sign but if you don’t plan well, it can turn out to be really messy. The trick is planning for the unpredictable weather and working with the cold temperature instead of fighting it. Brides, you don’t have to freeze and shine. Read through the following wedding tips for throwing a stunning wedding in this chilly weather.
Warm wedding Favors
Give your guests or wedding party some practical wedding favors like customized kikois or gloves which they can use there and then to keep warm. 

Steamy Drinks You can have some hot cocoa and coffee for guests to keep their fingers from freezing. Your wedding guests will certainly appreciate a cup of tea at the reception in this chilly weather.

Indoor Reception If the venue is in a place like Limuru, where the weather is too extreme for an outdoor wedding, you can opt for an indoor reception. You can use custom lighting and a glowing fireplace to spice up the reception venue. 

Keep Warm There’s absolutely nothing wrong in wearing a wedding dress and a stunning fur coat. It’s actually better than looking ridiculous in a strapless dress and the chilly weather that’s making it impossible for you to enjoy your day. You can wear the coat outside then remove it when saying your vows. Either way, who says you can’t look stunning and feel warm at the same time? 

Avoid the long train Dresses with very long trains can get dragged through the wet ground easily. You can choose a wedding gown with a long train but arrange for someone to consistently carry it while you walk around. Or simply do away with the long train if you don’t like the idea of trailing fabric behind you. 

Fabric Choose a wedding dress made of heavy fabric but make sure it doesn’t make you sweaty all day long. Fabrics like velvet, thick satin and heavy lace can be perfect for the cold months. However, make sure the dress has some breathing space like an open back. Avoid wearing other items underneath the dress, like tights, that may contribute to overheating. 

Fashion and style You can choose long sleeved dresses to avoid getting goosebumps on your arms. Other wedding gowns come with a bolero (a dress jacket) made of fabric which allows your skin to breath. Again, there’s the problem of getting too sweaty so you must choose an option that is comfortable and not overbearing. Think of buying a wedding dress with a collar to add extra elegance and class. 

A Quick Guide to Wedding Dress Fabrics

When shopping for a wedding dress, words like satin, tulle, silk, blends and Chantilly often pop up. Unless you are a designer or seamstress you may not know exactly what they mean. At Abigail Bridal we thought it’s important for you to understand your wedding gown fabrics so you can choose your dream dress. Let’s delve into the real stuff and help you decode common terms used as far as fabrics are concerned.

Fiber vs. Finish

A Fabric is a cloth made by either weaving or knitting fibers. In weaving, the fibers are crossed to form a grid pattern resulting in a fabric that’s smooth. A fabric that is stretchy and soft is created when fibers are knit looped around one another. Fibers can be natural such as cotton, wool or silk or synthetic like polyester.

People often refer to satin as a fiber; however satin is simply a finish. Satin can be made from pure silk, all polyester or a blend of the two. Fabrics made of natural fibers usually breathe better but can also be more expensive or wrinkle. If you are looking for satin finished gown don’t forget to ask for the fiber want.

Types of Fabrics

Satin

It’s a common versatile and durable bridal fabric that suits structured gowns. Satin is suitable for every body type and suitable for ball gown styles. Its thick nature makes it a good choice for cooler weather weddings.

Charmeuse

This is a light, rich and synthetic fabric with a glossy sheen. This fabric has a nice liquid effect and is perfect for column dresses. Its luxurious nature makes it a perfect fabric to go with.

Chiffon

Chiffon is a sheer lightweight woven fabric that is usually used in layers or as an overlay for elaborate fabric. This fabric is known for its ability to fray and snag easily

Organza

Organza shares the lightweight and sheer properties with chiffon but it’s a little stiffer than chiffon. Organza is more structured and is suitable for warmer weather weddings. It is usually quite delicate and snags and pulls easily.

Tulle

If you are familiar with the netlike fabric used in ballerina tutus, then that’s tulle. This fabric has an airy feeling and can incorporate lace designs pretty well.

Lace

Lace is a pretty common fabric and comes in a variety of styles.  Some of the most popular varieties are Chantilly (detailed open lace with defined border), Alecon (trimmed with cord, motifs on net), Venise (heavy and more structured, perfect for cold weather weddings)

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Are Gowns Required at Black-Tie Weddings?

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Oh, the dreaded black-tie wedding. Not because it's not fun, but because guests are often at a loss for what to wear. It's not like many girls and guys have gowns and tuxes lying around — so what is appropriate attire when attending a black-tie wedding? Here our etiquette experts outline an acceptable wardrobe.

All wedding invitations should denote the formality of the reception — especially when they're throwing ablack-tie wedding. If you receive an invitation for an evening wedding that's engraved and has that black-tie marker at the bottom right corner know you're in for a swanky night. But while black-tie calls for formal dress, that doesn't mean you have to break the bank or look like you're on the Oscar red carpet.

See more: 10 Ways to Ensure Your Guests Have the Absolute Best Time

For women, the rule of thumb should be a floor-length dress or a very formal cocktail dress (think A-line, metallic, or rich embellishments). Again, this doesn't have to be a trumpet or ball gown, but it should be very dressy (sheaths are always a great go-to!). While guys are traditionally expected to wear a tuxedo, they should at the very least don a nice suit, preferably black, with a black tie (because, you know). For a formal evening wedding without the mention of "black tie", the rules are slightly more lax, but women should still wear longer or more formal cocktail dresses and men should be in the nicest suit they own. After all, you are able to wear what you want, just don't show up in a sundress or khaki slacks with a cotton button-up and you're all good.

HOW TO INCORPORATE TRADITION IN YOUR NON-DENOMINATIONAL CEREMONY TO PLEASE YOUR PARENTS

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A couple's religious faith or lack thereof often dictates how the duo plans their wedding, from the ceremony to the vows. However, nondenominational ceremonies are becoming more prevalent amongst couples who want to celebrate their love without any spiritual components. But what is the best course of action when a bride's (or groom's) parents are pushing for a religious union despite her desire for a nonsectarian ceremony? Our etiquette experts weigh in on how to host a nondenominational wedding with some traditional aspects toplease mom and dad.

There are a myriad of ways to lend traditional, religious elements to a nondenominational ceremony without overshadowing the union itself. First, consider utilizing traditional vows during your nuptials, or blending in a blessing from your parents' religion. The marriage vows of many religions possess common themes irrespective of their denominations, including friendship, commitment, mutual support, and respect. By melding your own beliefs with those of your family through the wording of your ceremony, you can stay true to your convictions while humoring your parents.

If you wish to keep your vows free from religious undertones, you may consider indulging your parents by including a symbolic gesture into your ceremony that directly pertains to their religion. For example, if your parents are Jewish, you can punctuate your "I do's" with a traditional breaking on the glass, design your ceremony space with a chuppah, or sign the ketubah.

See More: All of Your Tricky Religion Etiquette Questions, Solved!

Finally, your reception can pose a wonderful opportunity to embrace your family's religion without saturating your big day in divine elements. Couples who hope to include Christian customs in their reception might encourage loved ones to join in the blessing of the covenant, while those looking to honor the Jewish faith might celebrate with a conventional dance such as the Krenzl or the Horah.

How to Modernize a Traditional wedding Ceremony with Deco

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The 21st century has brought with it the potential to customize everything in your life, from your hair color tothe décor you use at your wedding. Even if your childhood church or synagogue possesses a quaint and traditional aesthetic, there's no reason why you shouldn't indulge in a love of midcentury modern décor or streamlined accents. Modernizing a church wedding can be as simple as customizing your lighting selectionor floral arrangements. Just ask New York and Savannah-based wedding expert Rebecca Gardner, whose suggestions for ways to update traditional ceremony sites with personalized decorations just may make your nuptials the perfect union of classic and contemporary.

1. Soft Lighting Sources 
Gardner credits soft lighting sources as features that can modernize even the most traditional religious settings for a contemporary couple. "Focus on glowing candles and soft washes of uplight," explains Gardner.

2. Sculpted Florals and Topiaries
When it comes to bouquets of flowers, toss tradition out the window in favor of more streamlined fare. "Baskets of blooming shrubs and shoulder-height topiaries make a statement at the entrance," Gardner recommends. Continue these down the aisle to soften the space but leave the wedding party lots of room to shine," offers Gardner.

See more: 6 Pretty Ways to Bring the Outdoors Into Your Wedding

3. Don't Go for Baroque
When it comes to creating a put-together look for a church ceremony, Gardner suggests letting the house of worship's ambiance do the talking instead of muffling it with expansive and obtrusive displays, highlighting key points of the design. "There is nothing more sincere than a traditional wedding in a place or worship," Gardner elaborates. "Churches were designed to be grand, so I prefer to let the ceremony décor take a back seat to architectural elements."

4. Strategic Pops of Color
If a bland backdrop is your largest décor concern for a church wedding, invest in strategic pops of color to weave through the space. Vibrantly hued blooms are a beautiful option, according to Gardner. "Camellias offer a punch of color and gardenias smell divine," the seasoned wedding planner explains.

5. Leave the Ornate Vintage Décor for Another Occasion
Nothing gives a wedding a dated feel quite like staid traditions that can be traced to a particularly elaborate time period unless they're wittily mixed in with cutting-edge elements. "Gone are the days of fussy stargazer lilies and droopy satin bows," Gardner insists. Try incorporating touches that are personal to you as a couple instead of conventions that are impersonal and overtly garish.

My Fiances Family Wants a religious Ceremony,but that means I'd have to convert.Help!

My Fiancé's Family Wants a Religious Ceremony, but That Means I'd Have to Convert. Help!

Tuesday, February 2, 2016 

by Jaimie Schoen

Photo: Matt Blum Photography

Deciding on what type of wedding ceremony you'll have can be challenging, especially when one of your families is much more religious than the other, or practices a religion with strict rules about marriage requirements. Some faiths require that you convert in order to marry, while others are much more open to interfaith marriages or performing a religious ceremony even if one spouse isn't a member of the religion. So how can you find the balance if your fiancé or his family wants a religious wedding, but that would mean you have to convert? Here's how our experts recommend you handle it.

Before deciding against a religious ceremony at all, the two of you should have a serious conversation about your religious beliefs and the role you anticipate those beliefs will have in your life as a couple. Will you raise your children with a particular faith? Do you envision attending services every weekend? Just on holidays? Do you celebrate all of the religion's holidays, or just the biggest ones? You probably discussed most of this before you got engaged, but now is a good time to get into more of the specifics, especially if there's a chance one of you will be converting to a new religion before your marriage.

See more: 5 Ways to Modernize a Traditional Religious Ceremony with Décor

If you've decided to practice two different religions, or to not give religion too much of a role in your life together, you should have a conversation with a priest, rabbi, or other leader in your religious institution to get a more clear picture of any marriage requirements, as well as ways in which those requirements might be flexible. For example, some Catholic churches will perform a marriage between a Catholic and a non-Catholic, but it won't be recognized as a sacramental marriage, while others that are more orthodox will not perform the marriage at all.

If you find yourself in a position where you've decided against converting and your fiancé's religious leader won't perform the ceremony, you have a few options. First, you can seek out a more liberal officiant who would be willing to create a ceremony that acknowledges his religious beliefs without requiring that you convert. Second, you could opt for a secular or civil ceremony, incorporating things like meaningful readings or rituals without having a full-on religious ceremony. By highlighting the most important parts of one, or both, of your religious traditions, you'll be able to incorporate what really matters without sacrificing your own beliefs.

7 Ways to fill the Post-Wedding Planning Void

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You've spent practically a year of your life planning and prepping and pinning away, but now that the big day is finally done you're like a lost puppy with no purpose moping around. Who knew you'd actually miss having this huge, crazy stressful event to plan? The good news is, you're definitely not alone. A lot of brides experience what experts dub the post-wedding blues, and for many women, the best way to get out of the slump was finding a new project or goal to set their sights on. Whether it's taking up a new hobby or tackling an interior design remodel, here are 7 ways to fill the void post-wedding.

1. Try to get your wedding published
One surefire way to fill that empty space in your heart after the wedding has come and gone is to relive it through photos and videos, advises Florida-based wedding planner Aviva Samuels of Kiss The Planner. "Savor the finer moments on a romantic evening with your honey or even alone in your happy place." And if you have the opportunity to get your wedding published, by all means go for it! "Seeing your story on the pages of your favorite wedding magazine or blog is bound to keep the happy memories going on long pastthe wedding date." You can also work on creating the perfect wedding photo book keepsake, which is no easy feat!

2. Take up a new hobby
Jessica Janik, Founder of The Invisible Bridesmaid, highly suggests trying something you've always wanted to conquer, such as an art, cooking, cake baking or even jewelry making class. And if you think you'll be down in the dumps post-wedding, set it up to start immediately after you get hitched (around two weeks should be good, Janik says). "This way, you can dive right into the new activity before the depression ever has a chance to set in."

See More: 6 Things to Pack With You for Your Honeymoon Plane Ride

3. Host the ultimate dinner party
In other words, become the hostest with the mostest! Once you've planned a wedding, coordinating any other small event will feel like a piece of cake, notes newlywed and event planner and designer Kristine Cholakian Cooke of Simply Charming Socials. "Put your Pinterest boards, registry gifts and entertaining skills to use by hosting gatherings at your home. Take advantage of smaller 'holidays' such as awards season and the Super Bowl or invite friends over for a just-because dinner party." Great food, a beautifully set table and a group of your besties will be the perfect cure for that post-wedding void, she tells us.

4. Set new career, financial and family goals
Chances are, your career may have suffered slightly during the intensive wedding planning period. Thus, now would be a great time to reorganize and refocus and start thinking about your short-term career and financial goals, particularly if you plan on having kids soon, points out wedding planner Chandra Keel, owner ofChandra Keel Events. Hoping to get pregnant ASAP? Download a fertility app like Glow that lets you take the reigns by giving you something to record and track each and every day on your journey toward conceiving.

5. Help your BFF plan her big day
Let the wedding planning begin again! Since you've just been through the process yourself you can show her the ropes, says Cooke. "It's a great way to direct your design urges, flex your planning muscles and get involved with another creative and sentimental project, while ultimately remaining stress-free. It's not your budget or wedding party drama after all." Anthony Taccetta from Anthony Taccetta Event Design agrees. Pay it forward! Reach out to a friend or family member that is planning an upcoming event and offer to help using your newfound knowledge, he recommends. "Take on a select few tasks that you feel confident you can execute flawlessly."

See More: 4 Ways to Reduce Pre-Wedding Stress

6. Get the house in order
If registry gifts are still everywhere post-wedding, it's time to clean house. "Invest in the art of organization and homemaking by sorting through your items, putting away new ones and donating or selling the rest," advises Cooke. "This clean slate can lead to inspiration for decorating or renovating your home." In fact, now that you're a Pinterest pro, Chancey Charm Charlotte wedding planner Miranda Tassi suggests channeling those skills toward your house. "Perhaps there's a decorating or remodeling project you and your new hubby are interested in and Pinterest is, of course, the perfect tool for things like this."

7. Reconnect with girl friends
For Chancey Charm Memphis wedding planner Lizzy Hill, the post-wedding planning void hit her big time after she said, "I do" last May. One of the things that helped her get through however, was pouring her energy into building back up friendships that got put on the backburner thanks to wedding planning. "Let's be honest, it's easy to get caught up with floral arrangements and centerpieces and brides start to miss margarita Monday's with the girls," she says. Make more dinner dates and dates in general with gal pals to occupy your time and ward off the dreaded blues.

Wedding Planner? Designer? Cordinator? What's the difference?

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Planning a wedding comes with a whole new set of vocabulary, and words you thought you understood suddenly take on an entirely new meaning (we're looking at you, STD!). One of the biggest distinctions that a bride needs to figure out early on in the process is what, exactly, the difference is between a planner, a designer, and a coordinator. And who better to ask than the professionals themselves? Here's what each does (and why you might want to hire them), straight from the experts' mouths.

Wedding Planner
Wedding planners are all about the logistics, from vendor referrals and contract negotiation to day-of execution of your vision. "Planners take the guesswork out of the process, making planning a wedding as seamless and smooth as possible," says Renny Pedersen, owner and creative director of Bliss Weddings & Events. "A planner will keep track of your budget and handle the logistics. This is a skill that many can learn, but only the best planners have the years of experience and credentials that sets them above the rest." Some planners also provide design or styling services, helping with the creative specifics of your wedding day, while others opt to leave those details to a wedding designer — which means you'll need to hire two professionals to create the day you've dreamed of. Be sure to discuss whether your planner offers design services, or else read on...

Wedding Designer
An event designer's role is purely aesthetic, and doesn't include things like contract negotiations or attending appointments alongside the bride. "We specialize in design, consulting on everything from floor plans and lighting design to the flowers, furniture, linens, and attire," says Tracy Taylor Ward, President and Principal Designer of Tracy Taylor Ward Design. "We help with the decisions that will give your event a cohesive, stylish and sophisticated look." The ability to design an event and create an atmosphere is a unique and rare talent. "It's more than choosing linens and chairs," says Pedersen. "A designer has an artistic eye that allows them to conceptualize the whole event and truly transform a space."

See more: 11 Wedding-Planning Lessons We Learned from Movies

Wedding Coordinator
A coordinator (often a month-of service) is logistically-focused, but on a shorter timeline than a planner. They will confirm vendor contracts and create a day-of timeline, as well as make sure things like payments and guest counts are in order, but won't be involved in the earlier planning phases or keeping track of your budget. "Part of their job is to coordinate everything involved on the day of the event, from load-in and load-out to ensuring that everyone is on schedule," says Pedersen. Coordinators make sure everything you've done up until they take over is in good shape. "Hiring a coordinator to take over the month before your wedding gives them time to tweak any details and follow up on loose ends," says Andie Cuttiford of Wrap It Up, the coordination arm of Bliss Weddings & Events. Everything is in order, nothing is forgotten, and you're free to enjoy your wedding day!

THE NEW LOOK: EDWARDIAN -INSPIRED BRIDAL

Calling all brides: here's the right way to dress like a royal.

One of the most chic eras in fashion history made its mark on runways the world over this season–from Spring 2016 ready-to-wear, to the latest bridal collections and even on this week's Haute Couture runways, where we spotted fresh takes on the regal-yet-relaxed Edwardian era in Paris. Part Princess of Wales and part Game of Thrones, this trend has enough opulence for the glamour-girl while using fabrics that will leave the romantics obsessed. Here's how to get the look we're loving in small doses or from head to toe.

The Fashion

Loads of gossamer lace, mock necklines, empire waistlines, gilded embroidery and blouson sleeves are telltale signs that you're doing this look justice. Embellishments like ruffles, soft tiers and floral motifs are par for the course when channeling today's version of old-school royalty.

Alexander McQueen Spring 2016; Marchesa Bridal Fall 2016; Elizabeth Fillmore Bridal Fall 2016; Zimmermann Spring 2016; Elie Saab Haute Couture Spring 2016.

IMAXTREE; MARCHESA; ELIZABETH FILLMORE; IMAXTREE; IMAXTREE

The Accessories

Lace flounces, encrusted minaudieres, brocade, ribbon collars and ruffled crowns take this look to the next level.

Dolce & Gabbana Spring 2016 handbags; Rochas Spring 2016 lace pump; Etro Spring 2016 ribbon choker; YUNOTME silk headband, $300, net-a-porter.com.

The Beauty 

Rosy cheeks, dewy skin and dramatic headpieces add a period piece to an otherwise simple look, or up the ante on an already of-the-time ensemble.

Elie Saab Haute Couture Spring 2016; Dolce & Gabbana Spring 2016; Rodarte Spring 2016.

The Jewelry

Glimmers of this look popped up in the season's engagement bling and in fine, aisle-worthy accessories. For the Edwardian-obsessed: look for pieces that have medieval vibes– like intricate metalwork, champagne diamonds or natural motifs like flowers and stars.

Stephen Russell pendant necklace, price upon request, stephenrussell.com; Gabriella Kiss cupid earrings, $520, augustla.com; Colette tiara, price upon request, colettejewelry.com; Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. ring, price upon request, tiffany.com; Kwiat ring, price upon request, kwiat.com.

STEPHEN RUSSELL, AUGUST LA, COLETTE JEWELRY, TIFFANY & CO., KWIAT

PHOTOGRAPHER DIEGO ZUKA AND MODEL CECI MENDEZ'S FAMILY-STYLE WEDDING IN ARGENTINA

Go-to street style photographer, Diego Zuko, married Ceci Mendez, who has modeled for Chanel, Oscar de la Renta, Marc Jacobs, Celine and Dior (just to name a few) in a civil ceremony and intimate reception in their native Argentina on December, 17th 2015. The couple met almost eight years prior in New York over lunch after being introduced by mutual friends. What started as a friendly lunch soon turned into spending the entire day together in Soho, which led to dinner and joining Ceci's friends for a limo ride around the city and dancing until all hours. As Diego tells it, three clubs and some cocktails later, "we were already in love."

Diego proposed to Ceci at Eleven Madison Park in New York City. He told us, "I've wanted to take her ever since I heard that it was one of the few three-star Michelin restaurants in New York; a proposal was the perfect excuse to go, we had the most amazing dinner." After a small wedding in Mexico with only a few friends from New York present, the couple headed to their home country of Argentina to wed and celebrate with family and friends this past December.

The Ceremony

"Ceci did not know what to wear for City Hall, and while she was searching she remembered this amazing Ralph Lauren Collection ivory suit she had hanging in Buenos Aires that was still unworn, and the look was found." The couple were married in Tulum, Mexico in May 2015 but made it official with a chic civil ceremony before their reception in Argentina.

Ceci wears a Ralph Lauren Collection suit, Nicholas Kirkwood shoes and a Gucci clutch; Diego wears Dior Homme.

MALCOLM MAC GIBBON

The Venue

The couple chose Villa Ocampo, the former house of Argentinian cultural figure Victoria Ocampo, who founded Sur magazine in 1931. The property is protected under UNESCO World Heritage for it's cultural significance. "It's a house full of history where we feel very inspired. It's also one of Ceci's favorite places in Buenos Aires."

The Gown

The bride chose a sleek Ralph Lauren Collection sheath with short sleeves, shirred details and a keyhole back. She paired the look with pointed toe kitten heels by Nicholas Kirkwood and a minimal gold bangle.

JOAQUIN CARBAJALES

The Bouquet

Ceci opted for a simple, sweet nosegay of white peonies created for her by Camila Gassiebayle of Blumm Flower Co.

JOAQUIN CARBAJALES

The Couple

The Couple

Diego, 33 and Ceci, 29 began dating long distance after their first meeting, making plans to visit one another or travel together every other month. Trips to Machu Picchu, Punta del Este, Salta and Paris between her visits to Buenos Aires and his to New York held them over until Diego moved to New York City, where they have been living together ever since.

MALCOLM MAC GIBBON

BRIDES FLORIDA:THE WEDDING GUEST GUIDE TO MIDTOWN MIAMI

Photo: Brian Marcus of Fred Marcus Studio

Once considered a part of street-art-filled Wynwood, bayside Edgewater, and the luxe Design District, Midtown Miami has become a destination all of its own now. Once home to a rail yard and industrial-style buildings, this new neighborhood, which popped up in the mid-2000s, was never one you'd ever think of using the word trendy to describe. But now, you can compare it to spots like New York's SoHo with chic shops andrestaurants all centered around a few well-designed, pedestrian-friendly streets, making it an easy spot to get around for guests without a car. Here are a few ways they can make the most out of a day in Midtown during your wedding weekend.

Where to Dine & Drink

SUGARCANE Raw Bar Grill
SUGARCANE may only have been around five years, but it seems like it's been a staple on Miami's dining scene for decades. Recommend to guests that they head over for the happy hour (a local favorite) followed by a dinner sampling — a mélange of local and South American flavors streaming out of the three kitchens: robata, hot and raw bar.

Blackbrick
Guests looking at the pricetags on menus around town may be worried they're in for a spendy weekend in Miami, but many chefs are stepping up to the plate introducing quality cuisine at affordable prices. Case in point: Blackbrick, one of the hottest Chinese restaurants in town, has Chef Richard Hales adding a special spin to Chinese favorites at reasonable prices. Just sample General Tso's Florida gator, and you'll see what we mean.

Bocce Bar
Bocce Bar is basically Miami's version of Eataly, with housemade pastas and antipasti dishes that source ingredients straight from Italy. Behind the bar, your guests can pick up Italian artisanal products from the restaurant's market, but they shouldn't skip over the bar itself, stocked with homemade aperitivos sure to get the evening started on the right note.

Things to See & Do

Squeeze in a Workout 
Fitness fanatics can keep up with their daily routines by booking a class at the newest Barry's Bootcamplocation in Miami. There's a reason why the hour-long classes have been dubbed "The Best Workout in the World," drawing a cult following of celebs and locals alike who love not only the secret fitness formula, but also the MALIN+GOETZ-stocked showers in the changing rooms.

Pamper Pre-Wedding
Guests who didn't have time to get a mani and pedi before hopping the flight down to Miami can resort to more than the hotel spa. Eco-chic Nail Bar is the perfect solution, with its chic pod-shaped chairs that hook up to iPhones and iPads, so they can not only control their choice of music while getting worked on, but they can also double task taking care of any last-minute arrangements they need to make before your wedding day.

See More: These Miami Wedding Favor Vendors are Sure to Please Your Guests!

Shop Design-Savvy Housewares
We won't tell if you just so happen to add an item or two from Bobby Berk Home on your registry as a subtle hint for any last-minute shoppers who need to find something in-person when they touch down in Miami. If you're a fan of mid-century modernism, this is definitely your place with collections inspired by the 50s, 60s, and 70s.

Get Wedding-Day Ready 
Those who aren't part of your wedding party (but still want to get done up just as fabulously) can pop into Blo— and come out looking camera-ready with a speedy wash and blowout in under 30 minutes. Read real brides' reviews here!

Impress those guests! Head over to our Miami Vendors page to see tons of wedding décor, flowers, and show-stopping favors for your big day!

3 WAYS TO STAY "FRESH" DOWN THERE BEFORE YOUR HONEYMOON

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Imagine yourself lounging by the pool in a big floppy hat and your new husband by your side. He takes out the sunscreen and begins gently massaging it onto your bronzing skin.

Before you know it, you're excusing yourself from the poolside, making out in the elevator, and he's untying your bikini at the entrance to your hotel room door when... pump the breaks!

You suddenly realize you've been sweating in the sun all day and feel self-conscious that you're not as freshdown there as you could be down there.

So how exactly can you keep your lady parts clean, and most importantly, what's healthy and "normal" below the waist?

1. Be aware of any out-of-the-ordinary smells.
First off, vaginas should smell and taste like nothing other than, well, vagina! Your private parts aren't supposed to smell like a Glade candle or taste like Starbursts. Your vulva, which includes the outer and inner lips (labia majora and labia minora), the clitoris, and the opening (vestibule), has a natural scent that varies by person.

The taste is related to it's pH balance, and has been described on MyVag.com as, "not quite sour, but somewhat astringent," since the vagina is acidic. Though little research exists to support the "pineapple theory," some experts suggest that eating more and less of certain foods can make you taste sweeter.

Dr. Carol Queen, Staff Sexologist and Chief Cultural Officer at Good Vibrations says, "Some people swear by a vegetarian, high-fruit diet (especially papaya and pineapple) to make all their bodily scents nicer." Queen suggests paying attention to whether red meat affects your scent, and warns smell-laden foods, such as garlic and onions can leave their trace. "If you're changing your diet, cut out cigarettes while you're at it. Some people also think coffee and alcohol change the flavor and smell of our secretions," encourages Queen.

Still feeling insecure? According to Dr. Katherine Ellin, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist in Cambridge, MA, "There's something unique about a person's odor and it can be very sexy and appealing. In our culture, people believe everything should be sanitized, and that nothing should smell. That's just not realistic."

So don't fret, your man may actually be very attracted to your scent! Lastly, it's important to be familiar with your vaginal scent because if something's fishy (no pun intended) you can recognize odor-causing infections faster. Just make sure you seek treatment ASAP. Queen reminds us to "follow the doctor's instructions — and do this a few weeks before the wedding so there's no need to put medical goo inside yourself on your wedding night!"

See More: 18 Gorgeous Pieces of Wedding Night Lingerie to Buy Now

2. Your 6th grade health educator was right — hygiene is key!
It may be ok to go a few days without washing your hair, but that's in reference to the hair on top of your head! Bathing or showering daily, especially after exercise, is the best way to stay fresh. Stick with a gentle, unscented bar soap, which can have less drying and irritating alcohol content than body wash.

When you're rinsing off, only focus on washing the vulva since the inner part of your vagina naturally cleanses itself. That means ditch the idea of douching completely, which can cause infection and other health problems. Sweat and the odor from urine can get trapped in your pubic hair. "Some women trim their pubic hair short or get a Brazilian wax — that's up to you, but remember to use personal wipes or a damp washcloth if you can't shower after the gym or when you've had to run for the bus," says Dr. Queen.

So before you head on your trip, book yourself a wax or bring cleansing wipes, which are good on the go for when the mood strikes! Queen recommends eco-friendly Swipes, which are great for after sex too.

3. Let your lady bits breathe!
When it's time to pack for your honeymoon, there's more than flirty outfits and sexy lingerie to consider. Dr. Queen points out that tight clothing, such as skinny jeans, pantyhose, and polyester undies gives your nethers little chance to breathe. In terms of lingerie, she says, "Go natural fiber, especially cotton, which breathes — poly fabrics do not. You might even want to go commando part of the time." We don't think your new hubby will mind that either!

Now go have the hot and heavy honeymoon of your dreams... bon voyage!

Samantha Burns, LMHC is a Relationship Counselor and Dating Coach at LoveSuccessfully.com. Follow her on Facebook & Instagram @lovesuccessfully

LADY GAGA'S ROMANTIC WEDDING LOCATION REVEALED!

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Looks like the celebrity wedding of the year finally has a location! Lady Gaga finally crossed off one thing from her wedding planning to do list and picked a venue for her upcoming nuptials to Taylor Kinney.

Lady Gaga and Taylor Kinney announced early in 2015 that they got engaged on Valentine's Day. The pop diva and her "Chicago Fire" fianceé, have yet to divulge any exact details on the wedding plans, until now.

According to Page Six, the Golden Globe winner is planning to tie the knot in Italy. Gaga, born Stefanie Germanotta, wants to celebrate her Italian roots by planning her wedding in the Italian countryside. And who could blame her for choosing such a romantic location! And it's certainly a popular place for over the top celebrity weddings (um, Kimye, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, George and Amal Clooney!). Now that the location has been set the stars are taking their time hashing out all the details, so setting the right date and exact venue are tasks they have yet to knock off their planning list. Though the couple is still mum on the subject of their wedding date. Kinney told People earlier this month that "We'll keep it a surprise," about a possible date to walk down the aisle.

5 THINGS WIVES NEED FROM THEIR HUSBANDS EVERY SINGLE DAY

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One of the most important aspects of marriage is understanding your spouse's needs and how to fulfill them.

For instance, communication is a huge need, but how often should you communicate? What should it look like? Sex is an important need, but how often should you make love?

Each person is different, so this list may not apply to all wives. But after extensive research, I'm convinced the following "needs" represent the daily desires of most women:

1. They need to feel loved.
A husband communicates love for his wife both by his words and his actions. A husband should tell his wife daily (multiple times) that he loves her, but those words should be affirmed by the tenderness and thoughtfulness of his actions.

2. They need to feel beautiful.
Whether a women is dressed up to go out or hanging around the house in an old t-shirt, she needs to feel beautiful in her husband's eyes. A husband fulfills this need by telling her she's beautiful, flirting with her, showing affection, and also by having eyes only for her. A man can't gawk at every woman passing by or on TV and then be believable in telling his wife he has eyes only for her.

3. They need to be held.
A woman's need for physical affection is a daily desire. This can be met through hugs and caresses throughout the day, as well as the husband giving a shoulder/back/foot massage at the day's end. Those touches meet a physical and an emotional need. This can include sexual intimacy, but women tend to have a greater need for physical touch outside the bedroom than men.

4. They need communication.
A woman's need for communication is usually just as strong as the typical man's need for sex. Communication should happen throughout the day, including at least one conversation per day that's without any interruptions (no kids, phones, electronics).

5. They need thoughtfulness.
When a man is thoughtful, it simultaneously communicates love, concern, appreciation and respect for his wife. Thoughtfulness isn't just for romantic holidays; it's a daily need and a vital ingredient for a healthy, happy marriage.

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ELLE'S EDIT: BRIDE'S FASHION DIRECTOR'S FAVORITE LOOKS FROM PARIS COUTURE WEEK

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The Spring 2016 Haute Couture season just wrapped in Paris. Chanel, Valentino, Giambattista Valli, Zuhair Murad, Givenchy oh my! The high fashion runways are the perfect place to find that exquisitely dramatic, not to mention drop dead beautiful, inspiration shot for your wedding dress.

Lucky for us, the runways were full of bridal-ready inspiration, and breathtaking moments any bride can take a cue from! To help sort through the haute-ness of it all, BRIDES Fashion Director Elle Straus rounds out her favorites from the recent runways to inspire your own breathtaking bridal moment.

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Wow Wow Wow
Everything at Giambattista Valli. Period. Dramatic and intensely beautiful, these gowns are what couture is all about! The designer credited his collection as a "thank you" to Paris, with inspiration taken from the city's many gardens. We say thank you right back! If this collection is any indication, get your 60s-inspired caped shift dresses, full skirts and exaggerated volume ready to go! There were also high-low hemlines and some flowing shifts mixed in for good measure.

                                                                                                                              Giambattista Valli, Photo: Getty Images

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Zuhair Murad also went for show-stopping volume, show casted in blush gowns, floral embroidery, and caged skirts. Winter brides still looking for that A-HA wedding dress moment look no further for inspiration than this long-sleeved high-low gown.

We bet we'll be seeing these collections again soon — they are made to walk the Oscars red carpet!

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Valentino's Goddesses
If there was a moment from the couture runways tailor made for bohemian brides, it was Valentino's East meets West collection. With flowing barely-there gowns, pleated chiffon, deep cut necklines, ornate gold body jewelry, and serpent headpieces adoring the model's softly waved and subtly braided hair, Maria Grazia Churia and Pierpaolo Piccioli's collection was the ultimate in ethereal inspiration. Models were greeted with the following words backstage: "You are a priestess going to the temple at the top of the hill. You are fierce, serene, strong, and you have a purpose . . ." Now there are some words of wisdom to take to heart before walking down your own runway (the aisle!).

All About the Girls
If there's one thing we love to watch as much as the clothes coming down the runways, it's the models! More specifically the It Girls of the moment Kendall Jenner (who closed Chanel's couture show last season as bride) and Gigi Hadid. And of course the dashing duo made for some adorably playful moments backstage before walking the Chanel show. All eyes, including ours, are on these girls. And let's face it, they really make fashion fun!

The Big Bridal Moments

Traditionally, the last look at a couture show is always the bride. Lucky for us right? This season's brides gave us some show stopping moments courtesy of Chanel, Ralph & Russo, Elie Saab, Georges Hobeika, and Zuhair Murad. Just go ahead and pin these for walking down the aisle inspiration.

                                                                                                                  Ralph & Russo, Photo: Getty Images

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Brides Southern California:Custom-Designed Wedding Dresses Found in Los Angeles

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Los Angeles is known for its easy access to top designers and wedding vendors across the board. When it comes to your wedding, a custom-designed wedding dress is a great way to showcase your style and create the ultimate, perfect gown for your big day. Whether you're a traditional bride, bohemian bride, or beach bride, LA has a wedding-dress designer for everyone. Here are a few of our favorite custom-design wedding-dress shops.

JINZA Couture Bridal, Traditional/ Classic Bride
JINZA Couture Bridal, located in West Hollywood, is an established wedding-dress design company specializing in classic wedding gowns. Each dress is handmade and designed by Jinza, the owner and store's namesake, who uses only the finest fabrics such as French lace, pure silk, organza taffeta, crepe, and chiffon. Her team uses the finest products and pays attention to every detail, so your dress will be exactly what you imagined it to be. Read real brides' reviews here!

L'ezu Bridal Atelier, Timeless/ Classic for a Curvy Bride
For the bride that is loving current wedding-dress trends but wants to find the right fit for her body, L'ezu is the perfect bridal salon fit. L'ezu designers have honed their skills to specifically create one-of-a-kind dresses designed to fit each bride that are on-trend and flattering. After several visits and fittings, brides receive the perfect gown designed to fit their shape and style. Read real brides' reviews here!

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Dolly Couture, Retro/Vintage Bride
For the bride-to-be who appreciates old school and a little rock 'n' roll, Dolly Couture will design a short, vintage-inspired wedding dress that is sure to fit your style. From the beginning to the end of the dress-sizing process, Dolly Couture designers will keep you involved by providing swatches, sketches, and pictures of your dress as it is created by hand, ensuring the ensemble is being designed exactly how you've always dreamed! Read real brides' reviews here!

Deborah Lindquist Eco Couture, Eco Friendly Bride
For the eco-friendly bride, dress designer Deborah Lindquist is a fashion-forward, environmentally-conscious designer who specializes in eco-friendly wedding gowns. She creates her dresses using organic and sustainable fabrics such as organic linen, hemp, satin, and hemp organza. In true green style, a portion of the proceeds from her business even support non-profit organizations that promote saving the Earth. Read real brides' reviews here!

Dreamers & Lovers, Boho Bride
Dreamers & Lovers is a wedding-dress design studio specializing in bohemian and rustic gowns. All dresses are made-to-order, ensuring designers to pay attention to every detail — which makes each dress unique and one-of-a-kind. Designs at this boutique salon cater to the laid-back bride with effortless boho style. Read real brides' reviews here!

Want to see more Los Angeles custom dress designers? Check out our Los Angeles Dresses page to find your gorgeous gown!

Wedding Dress Inspiration from Pre-Fall Runways

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So he's put a ring on it, you took your #engagementringselfie, and now it's time to kick wedding planning in to high gear. You have an ideal vision of your dream wedding; from the flowers to the decor and choosing your wedding party, you know exactly what you want. But, then there comes the most important piece: the dress. Searching for the one can be a little daunting in a sea of gorgeous bridal options. Can't seem to find the right fashion inspiration to put all the pieces of the puzzle together? Lucky for you we looked to the recent pre-fall 2016 runways for a serious dose of style to get you over the hump. Just because they're off-the-runway doesn't mean they are necessarily complicated or out of your league — and with your engagement party, shower, rehearsal dinner, and the big day you'll need more than a little help. From classic to blush, metallic and long-sleeved, we've got just the right inspiration for every bridal style.

Jason Wu: This barely there nude silk dress is a modern, soft update to an ethereal bridal look.

Altuzarra: For the ultra-fashionable bride who wants to make a splash at the rehearsal dinner or reception after party, Altuzarra's blush dress with large sequins is a modern take on the Great Gatsby look.

J. Mendel: We can always count on J. Mendel for ethereal bridal inspiration. We get serious Goddess-vibes from this pleated blush dress (see Selena Gomez at the Golden Globes in a similar style from the designer)

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Michael Kors: If the barrage of '90s fashions we're seeing lately is any indication, slip dresses are going to be back with a vengeance. This almost bare slinky sequin number from Michael Kors gives us just the right amount of Cher Horowitz mixed with Cindy Crawford for the stylish and sexy bride.

Elie Saab: New Year's Eve may have come and gone, but metallics and faux-fur are forever. This is an ideal look if you're going for full-on glamour at a black-tie affair.

Chanel: A simple pleated metallic dress takes second stage when using jewelry as a dramatic neckline. Loads of drama for the risk-taking bride.

See more: All the Wedding Dress Trends from the Bridal Runways

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Nina Ricci: To quote Hugh Grant in Four Weddings and a Funeral, "not a meringue in sight" with this sleek Nina Ricci dress (from former Carven designer Guillaume Henry's first collection for the brand). A light shoulder detailing adds an edge of elegance.

Monique Lhuillier: Bib patterns spice up this otherwise usual white dress from bridal favorite Monique Lhuillier. The long sleeves add an extra touch of sophistication. 

Ralph Lauren: No one does refined sophistication quite like Ralph Lauren. We can just see this long-sleeved gown with a necktie making a splash at a lux black-tie city wedding.

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Adam Lippes: Capes are still definitely trending, and this Adam Lippes version with a high-slit is a perfect alternative for the simple, yet sophisticated, bride.

Delpozo: Delpozo's floaty, gauzy creations use floral embroidery for an unexpected hint of color on the back of a zipper or scarcely on the front instead of a full floral pattern. We love the high-low hemline for the modern boho bride.

Prabal Gurung: If tailored is more your thing, this classic suit with a subtle pattern by Prabal Gurung is just the thing for a laid-back wedding.

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Marchesa: Zendaya may have pulled the red carpet out from underneath us in the long version of this style (perhaps our favorite show-stopping number from the Golden Globes, the tri-layered draping and silhouette is sure to be a huge trend in dresses. Try its cheekier version in this short layered look from Marchesa's pre-fall collection — after party dress goals.

Bridal Colour Trends:Marigold for your Engagement Party,Rehearsal dinner

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Unless you've been living under a rock, you've already seen Jennifer Lopez's stunning arrival at the Golden Globes in a chartreuse gown designed by Giambattista Valli, and Michelle Obama's marigold Narciso Rodriguez sheath dress at the State of the Union earlier this week. Both made powerful statements with such bold colors and dazzling silhouettes and Obama's Narciso Rodriguez dress sold out almost immediately. But if you happened to fall in love the with the warm yellow-orange tones and want to find a subtle way to incorporate the color scheme into your wedding, or engagement party, then look no further

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A vintage 1970s couture silk gown is hard to find, but to find it in such an exquisite color like marigold is practically a miracle! The flowy silk chiffon and crepe make this a romantic option for a reception dress or engagement party. 1970s Couture Silk Crepe & Chiffon James Galanos Gown, $2,500, available at1stdibs.com.

This For Love and Lemons mini dress is definitely party-ready, but still harnesses the sweetness of the color in sheer panels with the softness of the embellished flower overlay. Just the right amount of '60s mod vibe for your rehearsal dinner or bridal shower. For Love and Lemons Sierra Mini Dress, $436, available at Asos

A high-waisted lace skirt is the perfect way to make this color trend versatile and subtle. Wear with a basic t-shirt and moto jacket for an edgy update on a refined piece. Monique Lhuillier Guipure Lace Pencil Skirt, 

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A classic pointy toed slingback is the ideal, and subtle, way to rock any trend. And these Zara pumps are no exception. The heel is just high enough to wear with a gown so your dress won't be dragging, and would add a gorgeous dose of color. Or show off your fashionista side with these and a leather skirt and silk blouse for your bachelorette party. Mustard yellow high-heels, $29.99, Zara

If a dramatic maxi dress is the look you want for your rehearsal dinner, consider this light and flowing dress from Saloni. We love that it has a little tease of a front slit and a plunging deep-V back giving it a more sensual feel. Saloni Renee dress, $178.50, available at Shopbop

How gorgeously dramatic is this Oscar de la Renta dress? A fun take on an evening gown for your engagement party that will make jaws drop. Sweetheart lace and floral embroidered dress, $6,490, Oscar de la Renta at Moda Operandi